BDSM Myths Exposed & ALL Couples Should Try Kinky Wax Play


Over the past 8 months or so I’ve been finding myself experimenting more and more into the kinky role playing lifestyle of bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism, also known as BDSM or S&M, and although it’s been less than a year since I started, I’ve noticed that many things I’ve heard about BDSM, and the people that participate in this kink, just aren’t true.

I mean most of the things I heard about BDSM had made me too nervous to try it out, but thankfully I decided to give it a go because almost everything I heard that made me too anxious to try it out sooner was nothing more than a myth.

If you’re on the fence about wanting to participate in some sort of kinky BDSM role playing scenario, please read this article because I’m going to debunk many myths about this kinky fetish that should help you feel more comfortable about giving it a shot.

Believe it or not but BDSM really isn’t anything to be afraid of, and honestly, there are many aspects of this kink that can be beneficial to ones health.

BDSM Myth #1: BDSM Is Extremely Painful And You’ll Get Hurt!

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BDSM isn’t only about hurting, spanking, beating up or slapping someone around because you can play hours without causing or receiving pain.

BDSM can be light and with touches of eroticism, involving subtle role playing, and fetishes solely based on kinky outfits made of latex, leather, or lace.

BDSM Myth #2: Everything You Need To Know About BDSM Is In 50 Shades Of Grey!

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There’s a heck of a lot more to BDSM than what’s portrayed in the book, or movie, 50 Shades Of Grey.

Just like marijuana is considered the “gateway drug” to harder drugs, I’d consider 50 Shades Of Grey as the “gateway drug” to better BDSM practices…also, I recommend that couples watch 50 Shades Of Grey together as a way of opening up the discussion about BDSM to try a few things out together…but in no way does this movie represent more than 3% of the BDSM lifestyle and philosophy.

BDSM Myth #3: Only Weird Perverts Participate In BDSM!

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If you’ve never dipped your toes into the BDSM swimming pool of kink, and only based your ideas on what you’ve seen in the media, then you’ve probably formulated the opinion that only weirdos, sickcos and sexually perverse people participate in BDSM, but actually nothing could be further from the truth.

BDSM participants can be happy, healthy, open-minded and ready to explore their sexual identities, as well as being less judgmental on people with sexual preferences other than theirs.

BDSM Myth #4: Only Men Can Be Dominants!

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One of my close female friends just happens to be a professional dominatrix, and she tells me that just as many men prefer submissive roles as they do dominate roles.

As you get started on your BDSM journey don’t be afraid to test out both submissive and dominant roles so you can discovery which role brings you the most pleasure.

BDSM Myth #5: Submissives Are Submissive In Their Everyday Lives!

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Many powerful CEO’s and other successful professionals tend to switch their real life roles of being “dominant” bosses in their real lives to that of the submissive role player in their BDSM fantasies. It’s a form of relaxation, providing a sense of relief of the burden of being constantly responsible for others in their everyday lives.

BDSM Myth #6: Dominants Are Sadistic & Dangerous!

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Dominants obviously do enjoy having power over their submissive, and lead their sessions, but everything is agreed upfront. BDSM relationships are highly consensual and most dominants are only going to practice something the submissive likes and enjoys.

BDSM Myth #7: Only Gay Men Participate In BDSM Anal Play!

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This is not true whatsoever. Prostate massage or stimulation by hand or a strap-on brings men very intense feelings equivalent to female G-spot stimulation.

So if you’re a straight man testing out BDSM don’t be affraid to let your lover use a strap-on at least a few times on you so you can enjoy new sexual sensations that you’ve never felt before.

BDSM Myth #8: 100% Of BDSM Sex Is Painful & Aggressive!

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From my experiences, BDSM does not always include sexual penetration, and in fact, some BDSM practices forbid sex altogether, such as male and female chastity, and orgasm denial; Orgasm denial is the act of not letting your submissive reach an orgasm just when they are very close to having one.

BDSM Myth #9: Once You Try BDSM The Regular Sex Becomes Too Boring!

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This is also not true whatsoever! People that participate in the BDSM lifestyle enjoy regular “vanilla” sex just like everyone else does.

BDSM Myth #10: BDSM Is Abuse!

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This is 100% false. BDSM participants establish “safe words” that can be used to inform all participants that it’s time to cool things down if their chosed=n “safe word” is said out loud.

Participants should always talk before, during, and after a scene or moment to make sure everyone is on the same page. BDSM in a healthy, consensual environment is not abuse. It is a physical manifestation of desires and urges, no matter how dark or dangerous.

BDSM Myth #11: BDSM Is For People That Suffer From Depression!

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Again, this is false. There’s an odd generalization that people who practice BDSM are somewhat darker and more psychologically damaged. However, a large-scale sexual health study on the mental well-being of those that practiced BDSM compared to those that are maybe sexually more traditional found that BDSM practitioners would have better attachments and relationships than their counterparts. They were also far less anxious, more intimate and far more extroverted, which led to very positive mental health and general happiness.

BDSM Myth #12: BDSM Leads To Infidelity!

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Believe it or not but couples that participate in BDSM tend to cheat less because they’re extremely open and honest about their sexual desires with each other which means they don’t have to find someone else to help quench their sexual appetites.

Well I hope that after reading about these myths you’re more open to giving BDSM a go because it really will open up your mind and body to an awareness of sexual gratification that you can only achieve from BDSM role playing experiences!

Give Wax Play a Try!

If you want to give BDSM a try then I highly suggest you start with some “wax play”!

Wax play involves dripping candle wax onto your partner (or yourself) in a kinky and very sexual way, and it’s a great way to test out those BDSM waters to see how far out your ready to swim!

Wax Play Tips That’ll Keep Things HORNY & SAFE & CLEAN

Wax Play Tip #1 – Set Up an Area to Play Where Nothing Can Be Ruined

Even body-safe candle wax can stain and stick to the material on your couch or your bed’s sheets for example, so make sure to not participate in wax play around anything you don’t want ruined.

Wax Play Tip #2 – Don’t Play Without Establishing a Safe Word

If you’re the one dripping the wax on your kinky partner then you have no idea what their threshold for pain is, so make sure both wax play participants establish a safe word so that the wax play session can be paused quickly!

Wax Play Tip #3 – Keep a Bucket of Warm Water Close By

Before you light that candle make sure you have a bucket of water close by just in case someone gets burned by the candle’s flame.

Wax Play Tip #4 – Don’t Play Near Flammable Items

This includes bed sheets and other items that could easily catch on fire!

Wax Play Tip #5 – Prep Your Body with Oil

Body oil products should be applied prior to playing so that the wax can easily be cleaned off the body!

Wax Play Tip #6 – Always Use Wax Play Candles sold Exclusively at No Limits Sensuality!

Don’t use just any candle you see lying around somewhere in your home, you must use body-safe wax candles to ensure that there won’t be any permanent scarring or third degree burns, and the absolute BEST wax play candles are sold online at No Limits Sensuality!

About No Limits Sensuality

All couples need to give BDSM role playing a try, and wax play is a great entry-level option that is perfect for all kinky newbies…but also extremely erotic for bondage veterans alike…and the BEST candles for BDSM wax play can be found today at No Limits Sensuality!

But No Limits Sensuality Is So Much More Than Just A Candle Shop…..

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No Limits Sensuality is an ADULTS ONLY sexual wellness online boutique that offers a wide selection of sex toys for mensex toys for women, and sex toys for couples alike!

No matter what type of naughty device you’ve been desiring to help “get you off”, you’ll be certain to find it at No Limits Sensuality!

I highly recommend everyone reading this to please visit No Limits Sensuality today and get yourself, or someone you want to help “get off”, a kinky sex toy that’ll provide orgasms to make you feel nothing but pure bliss!

It’s No Limits Sensuality’s goal to present you with anything, and everything, that turns you on. Take a look around their boutique’s wide selection of sex toys, and make sure you don’t miss anything because you never know what new kink you may find!

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Jenny’s Favorite No Limits Sensuality Wax Play Candle Sets….

You can’t go wrong with any of the candles sold at No Limits Sensuality, but just in case you’re having a difficult time deciding which sets to start with you may want to give these 3 below a try…..

Japanese Drip Candles Set of 3 – Assorted Colors

Japanese Drip Candles are wonderful for setting the mood but they are even better for Pleasure and Pain sex play. Their warm drip teases and tantalizes in a way you have never quite felt before. 3-pack colored drip candles will light up your sex life tonight. Set includes a red black and purple candle.

Visit No Limits Sensuality to learn more about these Japanese Drip Candles!

The 9’s Make Me Melt Sensual Warm-Drip Candles 4 Pack – Pastel

Perfect for titillating BDSM fun, these wax-play candles have just a tinge of heat when dripped, and then quickly warm to the touch. In beautifully erotic colors, for a classically sensual, visual experience.

Visit No Limits Sensuality to learn more about these Sensual Warm-Drip Candles!

Fetish Drip Candles 3pk – Red

Heat things up with these sexy candles!

Unique paraffin wax…Ideal for sensation play!

Visit No Limits Sensuality to learn more about these Fetish Drip Candles!

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